Have you ever watched couples walk around together? I have and it got me thinking. Have you noticed the different ways that they let you know that they are a couple? So for a bit of fun I thought about what kind of couple they are and if their body language had anything to do with it. Please bear with me as I am no psychologist; just a lay person, people watching. Here are my observations:
Couples who walk with arms round each other’s waists - I think that these are insecure in their relationship as they have to cling on to each other; stopping each other from getting away or moving on.
Couples, where the male has his arm round the shoulders of the female and the female has her arm round the male’s waist. This comes across to me as a dominating male in the relationship; got his little woman under the yoke so to speak, pressing and dragging her down. She on the other hand is mesmerised and looks up to him whilst clinging onto him so she doesn’t lose him.
A female who links her partner seems to be demonstrating that she wants protecting and likes to cuddle. She wants to hold onto him and be able to pull him back if necessary.
A couple holding hands are equal partners in the relationship so this says it all!
Couples who walk side by side with no contact are either early on or at the end of their relationship or just two independent people who are happy to stand alone if needed.
Which one are you?
A thought for the day; “Love is where you look into someone’s eyes and see their heart.”